First Time at the Movies

 Susan called and asked me if I was brave enough to attempt to take Kate to see the movie Brave on Saturday. I decided that why not?! But I of course brought Jon with me for the extra help! Kate did really pretty good considering her age. She ate popcorn, 2 packs of fruit snacks, some candy, went to the bathroom 3 times, sat in her chair, sat in Susan's lap, sat on my lap, and then dad's lap too! She was constantly moving around, but at least she stayed in our area and wasn't a terror. She would always tell me when she cycled back to my lap that it was loud. I'm not sure if that means she wasn't that into the experience or not....but she seemed to enjoy everything but that. The movie was a little on the scary side for a Disney, so I know that made her nervous a few times. Sadly this was the best picture I could get--Kate really didn't sit still well! She was looking at me when I started the picture but by the time it took she was distracted again. Goofy girl!

And one more unrelated picture. Kate has found a new favorite game to play with Chance. She takes one or two of his tennis balls and puts them in her shirt like boobs then runs around laughing while chance chases her. The first time she did it she had 2 and it was hilarious to watch the little boobs bouncing about the living room as she grabbed at them to hold them in place. Oh the things kids come up with!

Father's Day around here was a pretty quiet affair. I actually gave Jon his gifts earlier in the week, because I was unsure if I bought the right thing. He told me he wanted a pair of waders for his upcoming fishing trip with his brothers, and there were so many styles to choose from I just took a wild guess! He apparently liked them tho.
Kate was given this little mushroom to give to her Dad at nursery. It made me crack up, because my Dad and I love that corny joke! Kate and I are both blessed with great men in our lives. My Dad has always been such a great example to me. And Jon is a great Dad also! Yay for Fathers and Yay for a day to celebrate them!

MaMAAAAAA OoooOOOooooo!

 Kate is going through a phase lately where she only wants me to put her in bed. Since that is not ok with me, we still make Jon have a turn or two during the week. Usually when he initially takes her to bed she cries my name for a bit. Jon had an idea to take her mind off the pain of being stuck with dad; when she is crying my name he sings some bohemian rhapsode to her....but just the part when he sings "Mamaaaa OoooOOOOOOoooo"really loud. Kate apparently thinks its cool, or at the least distracting cause usually she ends up singing along while they finish brushing her teeth. It is pretty funny to listen to. But yesterday it must have gotten stuck in her head, cause an entire car ride I got to be serenaded by "MaMAa OoooOOOOooo" over and over again. Good times.

In other news, my life is over. Yesterday, as I was getting ready for a dinner date, I watched on as Kate got a butter knife and tried to unlock the bathroom door (I generally keep it locked during the day so that Kate can't get inside without me and make a huge mess as she is known to do. So I lock it on my way out and pull the door closed.). Inside my head I was laughing at her thinking, good luck little girl.....but she apparently doesn't need luck at all. She just used her up most concentration and in under 5 minutes unlocked the door for the first time shouting "I DID IT!!" as she ran into the bathroom. Then she proceeded to lock and unlock the door again 3 more times in nothing flat. Now what do I do!?

ps.....is her hair not the prettiest thing you have ever seen?! Even Jon last night while looking at these pictures said "she sure has the best hair ever." Coming from Jon, that is a huge compliment ;) And yes she dressed herself....it is far too hot for that kind of outfit, but Kate didn't seem to mind.

Swimming Lessons

Kate had her first swimming lesson yesterday! She really loved it! She started off a little shy (which is SO not like her, I was confused!) but after 5 minutes warmed up to her normal self. A boy in our ward who is a rocking swimmer teaches lessons in his backyard pool as a summer job. He is great with kids! Kate I believe has already developed quite the crush. She has been talking about him and his house ever since we left. She keeps saying, "See you tomorrow!". It is really fun to watch her little mind work out the new skills he is teaching her. Not to brag, but I think she is a natural! She throws caution to the wind and tries to impress her teacher. I'm already nervous about how she will handle the news that swimming lessons are over next week! But untill then we will enjoy going swimming every day!

Weekend Adventures

 This weekend Jon's sister Melissa graduated with her Masters Degree up in Ft Worth. So we decided to make a quick trip up to support her. We took along Jon's brother Kenneth. It was a very successful trip--Kate was an all-star in the car! And was happy the whole trip despite being overly tired. We got to spend some fun time with family, so that always makes for a great weekend! Here are the only pictures I took--of course none of them were of the grad, that would have made too much sense! Kate with Grandma and Grandpa Walter walking into the building where graduation was.

And after the graduation we went to dinner at a Cajun place (Boo Rays I think was the name). I must admit that when his sister told us where we were going Jon looked at me and laughed. We both assumed I would hate the food--fish and shrimp are nasty to me. But to my delight it was super good! I mean they fry everything, so it was delish! Even everyone else's fish didn't bother me cause it was fried! Anyway here is a picture of Kate willingly eating some fried alligator. She liked it ok, but not as much as she loved the battered french fries!

Memorial Weekend

 For our long weekend, we really just took some time to relax and work (you can be productive and still feel like its a break right?!). Jon was amazing and painted our baby's room. We went green....a nice baby girl green. It will be cute with everything put together. Jon also did loads of yard work. Our house is really getting polished lately. If Jon keeps up this pace his honey-do list may just be empty for the first time in his life ;) (that makes me sound demanding and like a task master....I'd like to think I'm not, but as Jon tells everyone "my wife is happy when I am working." ha....I guess it's true!) Then to have some real fun on Monday Jon and his friend Ezra decided they wanted to take their kids fishing. Sounded perfect to me...a free morning! I got to go shopping alone (I still laugh at myself when I get excited about that....oh how much children change your life!), and do some organizing in my room. Since the new baby will need a bedroom, our extra room-- that used to just serve as a resting place for the things we didn't know what to do with--had to be cleaned out and the stuff organized. I think I have MOSTLY gotten that under control. I'm still working on getting my closet back together from adding quite a few things to it! Anyway, after some organizing my family returned and took naps. Then we went to the Beaumont Walter Family cookout. We had the kids playing in the pool and ate good food. Overall it was just great to spend some extra time with my man around. Kate and I sure do love him! And to show you some photo proof, here is Kate in one of her new favorite games--backwards horsey rides:

For whatever reason Kate thinks hugging her dad's behind is a smart idea.....she will learn someday just how unwise this move is!

And just because I have this picture from this week I want to post it. Kate and Chance are just like siblings. Kate talks to him all day long and likes him to follow her around the house. I heard her telling chance to sit the other day and then she said "baby on Chance lap! yay!" I had to come see what in the world she was doing to the poor dog. It wasn't what I was imagining! I thought I would find Kate trying to sit on him or something....but no, she just wanted Chance to hold her baby. She was very pleased that Chance accommodated her wishes so well.

Advice Needed, and some bubbles for fun

 On Friday night Jon came home from work and went straight to bed. Kate and I were bored to tears with eachother.....so we went outside to blow bubbles. That of course then led to bath time. I guess Kate decided she hadn't had her fill of bubbles, and while I wasn't looking dumpped her entire bottle of shampoo into the tub. Instead of yelling at her--which was my initial instinct, I just embraced the bubble party. (And today I bought some real bubble bath so hopefully the shampoo will be spared next time.)

Now, that first part of the post was to prove that Kate and I do have some good times together. But GOOD GRIEF it feels like we fight constantly! What I want to know is are there any other moms out there who have felt like their child generally doesn't like them? I would bet half a million dollars if I had it that Kate would confirm the fact that she really dislikes me if she had more of the verbal capasity to do so. It makes me absolutely wild....she is so well behaved for other people, but turns crazy and angry if stuck with me. For example, Sunday walking into church Kate started throwing an epic fit. I got to our pew and was putting my stuff down so I could take her back out and calm her down, when she saw her Uncle Kenneth and ran right to him and sat happily on his lap. She was 100% happy the rest of church because she didn't have to be near me. Now, I LOVE that she is super friendly and happy with other people, but does she have to show her hatred towards me so strong---or vocally! At the grocery store today, THANK GOODNESS Aunt Heather was there too because Kate started SCREAMING bloody murder at me and hitting me, until Heather volunterred to push Kate's cart. Then she sat happy in the cart until I went to put her in our car....where she cried the whole way home demanding to be back with Heather. Maybe its partially my hormones talking, but it sorta rips my heart out to know my kid can't stand me. I try so hard to be a good mom and feel like its getting me nowhere. Obviously I'm doing something wrong if my kid can't be near me. SO--if anyone has ANY advice or thoughts of what I should try or ANYTHING, PLEASE let me know. I feel so desperate. I need Kate and I to be on better terms before her sister is born.

My new Boyfriend

I bought myself a boyfriend on Monday, and I think it's love. My body has been feeling like it might break apart at any given moment so I decided it was time to get a body pillow. When I was pregnant with Kate I don't remember my body hurting this bad this early on. I'm only 26 weeks!! Things only get bigger from here! Is it because I'm older? I'm in worse shape? I'm picking up a toddler all day? I'm aware that it only gets worse so I'm being over dramatic? Ha I don't know! But, my new boyfriend did help relieve some of the pain in my back the past few nights. So that is about all it takes right now for me to publicly confess to being in love. My current husband is not the biggest fan of my boyfriend because he says that with him in my arms I take up too much space in our bed. I say that I'm the one carrying the baby so I make the rules!
Does anyone else think that feeling so much discomfort this early on is normal?? I don't like feeling like I'm a wuss....

Mother's Day

 My mother's Day turned into a mother's weekend....I think I won the jackpot on that one! Jon spent most all day Saturday doing projects around the house for me! He fixed some paint that had been messed up since we moved in, cleaned the whole house, took care of Kate, fixed a light, mowed the yard, and planted some flowers for me. He sent me to the store to get what plants I wanted planted, and when I came home this picture walked by my window:

My husband is pretty amazing if I do say so myself! Then I got to see proof that Kate really likes helping Jon mow:

So this mother's day I was not only feeling loved by my family, and feeling love for my mom, but I was reminded just how great of a husband I have. I'm so excited to be getting to the point where I feel better and can get more projects taken care of around my house....cause in 3 months I won't have time for many projects!! Hopefully I will get my act together and have pictures of Kate's big girl room this week--It is mostly done, but I don't want to post pictures till I get all the details done! Then it will be on to the new baby room and finishing my room! So much to get done so little time! I hope everyone had a great mother's day!!

Water Fun

 In the last couple of weeks we have found a few excuses to play outside in the water. We aren't picky as to what form of water....for example the first two pictures are from a splash park nearby where we met up with a group of our friends. Kate ran around screaming and laughing. Basically she thought she was in heaven.

 Then we are content to hang out in the back yard with our cousins too! Splashing and squealing and being kids. Mom is glad they are still so easily amused! Give them a pool, a few cups and bowls and you've got a party!

 Then when we are living the high life we will chill poolside! Kate is actually a pretty decent swimmer considering her age. I'm really excited for her swimming lessons to start next month. We will get her ready for the Olympics someday--or I would settle for just a good swimmer so I don't have to hold her/and or watch her like a hawk!! That will give me arms for the next little swimmer I will be bringing around with us in August.

Amazing Friends

Have you ever just had a crappy day where no matter what you try to do you cant stop tearing up at everything and being emotional? Today has been one of those days for me. Not only is my throat swollen and my voice gone, but I woke up to a sick husband. He has a stomach flu. Since I've been throwing up the last 24 weeks of my life I totally understand, but at the same time it makes me grumpy that when he is sick he gets to sleep it off and do nothing; but the last 24 weeks he left me home alone with Kate to take care of (not that that means he is a bad person by ANY means its just the injustice of the situation!). So I got ready for church and took Kate with me as always. She was extra hyper today, so it made my job harder than usual. Then top that off with getting news at church that made me really emotional (I may have sat in the bathroom and cried for a bit....I blame the pregnancy!). I then of course come back home to a sick husband who needs me to take care of him. So my Sunday was spent taking care of my family all while feeling alone and emotionally strained. Then I get a random phone call from one of my dear friends. She says she knew I could use a laugh and was emailing me a video she made that would make me happy. Then she also listened to my woes as always and helped my burden feel lighter. So now I am sitting here crying again (I HATE HORMONES!) counting my blessings for all the amazing friends and family I have in my life. Whether it is a phone call or text or invite or comment, somehow the amazing people in my life always make my way lighter. I feel so unworthy to be blessed by so many simply amazing people. Even though I'm not going through any huge crisis I have friends who care enough about me to know when I need a good laugh. So I guess this is me publicly thanking all of my friends for the small things you do all the time to amaze me. You all make my life the amazing journey it is.

Fishing with Daddy

 Saturday I was off chaperoning a youth activity for our church, so Jon decided it was time to take his daughter on her first official fishing trip. He even took her to buy her own fishing pole first. He said that she seemed to really have fun until they caught a fish. His text to me telling me how the trip was going said "She is your daughter. Afraid of the dang fish" I have to admit, that made me laugh out loud literally! I'm sure she will warm up to it as time goes on. Maybe she will eventually take the fish I catch off the hook for me! I'm glad I have a husband who tries hard to make special memories with his daughter.